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Avec l’arriv\u00e9e d’Internet, les formes de relation, dites affectueuses ou amoureuses, ont pris une nouvelle dimension. La rencontre ne se fait plus exclusivement au d\u00e9tour d’une rue, mais derri\u00e8re des \u00e9crans via des sites d\u00e9di\u00e9s. En effet, Meetic, Adopte Un Mec ou encore Tinder promettent \u00e0 leurs utilisateurs, une belle rencontre et pourquoi pas, une histoire d’amour. D\u00e9barrass\u00e9es de l’angoisse de la premi\u00e8re approche propre \u00e0 la vie r\u00e9elle, ces personnes, de fa\u00e7on d\u00e9complex\u00e9e, abordent via Internet, des inconnus dans le but de s\u00e9duire. Ainsi, par diff\u00e9rents stratag\u00e8mes, chacun est libre de se montrer comme il le souhaite. La premi\u00e8re accroche semble d\u00e9cisive pour faire na\u00eetre de l’int\u00e9r\u00eat chez l’interlocuteur et se d\u00e9marquer de ses \u00ab concurrents \u00bb. Pour arriver \u00e0 ses fins, quelles qu’elles soient, l’internaute va user d’humour, se d\u00e9crire dans les moindres d\u00e9tails, complimenter \u00e0 outrance ou encore utiliser un ton grivois…<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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Mais que se passe-t-il lorsque les codes de cette s\u00e9duction virtuelle, sont utilis\u00e9s dans la vie r\u00e9elle ? Apr\u00e8s avoir pass\u00e9 plusieurs semaines sur les sites de rencontres, j’ai d\u00e9cid\u00e9 de me confronter \u00e0 la r\u00e9alit\u00e9, en abordant des inconnus sur une place publique. En utilisant les m\u00eames phrases d’accroches que celles g\u00e9n\u00e9ralement prononc\u00e9es sur sur les r\u00e9seaux sociaux d\u00e9di\u00e9s, j’ai \u00e9chang\u00e9 avec diff\u00e9rentes personnes. Ainsi, pass\u00e9es la surprise et l’incompr\u00e9hension de mes interlocuteurs face \u00e0 mes approches tr\u00e8s directes, la conversation d\u00e9marre allant jusqu\u2019\u00e0 d\u00e9voiler parfois, une certaine intimit\u00e9.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Avec l’arriv\u00e9e d’Internet, les formes de relation, dites affectueuses ou amoureuses, ont pris une nouvelle dimension. La rencontre ne se fait plus exclusivement au d\u00e9tour d’une rue, mais…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":3013,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[37,4],"tags":[261,272],"class_list":["post-3012","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-etudiants","category-projets","tag-irl","tag-rencontre"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/www.reynalddrouhin.net\/edu\/dataflow\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/irl.png","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p72hC6-MA","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":1869,"url":"https:\/\/www.reynalddrouhin.net\/edu\/dataflow\/2015\/02\/sybil-dary-irl\/","url_meta":{"origin":3012,"position":0},"title":"Sybil Dary \/ Irr\u00e9el","author":"Reynald Drouhin","date":"10 f\u00e9vrier 2015","format":false,"excerpt":"Sybil Dary, \"Irr\u00e9el\" installation in situ, volume en bois, 2m x 1,20m x 6m , jardin du cloitre. \u00ab IRL \u00bb litt\u00e9ralement \u00ab in real life \u00bb une expression utilis\u00e9e sur Internet sur les r\u00e9seaux sociaux , forum et autres jeux en ligne. 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